I may not always categorize myself into a group based on features or assets, but seriously, being a part of a natural hair community has got me thinking. Are we left out?While I was at work a doctor approached me (who also has natural hair), and she asked if there is a place in my state where I purchase my hair products…. and then I began to think. there are not many shops out there who just specialize in hair products for natural hair. Now doing so may have its limitations, and its stigma on catering to just one group, making the natural hair community ostracize others.But C’MON SON! It would be nice to have a store that we could go to just to have our hair questions answered or even to find out which products best help with out hair, as expressed by the Doctor. Yes this may be a controversial topic and I could very well answer for both sides but I just had to let it be known. So if there are any beautiful hair product creators out there that can help with this issue, please step out of your box and open up a store. There is nothing to lose… =) I would but I am not the greatest at conjuring hair concoctions.
I thought to myself today about all of the trials I faced as I started my hair journey. Some of these trials consisted of product errors or even downfalls that were associated with my hair regimen. Just like anyone else, there will always be blocks in our journeys but I think its time for me to put together a little series to help a fellow natural out. Almost like a starter kit.. or Naturals for Dummies (for lack of a better term).Does this mean that this is geared to those of us who just did a big chop!Not at allEveryday of my hair journey constitutes as a new day because there are more barriers like the sun or obstacles I have to encounter like tangles. This meaning, anyone can enjoy the 101’s and ins and outs of this series! Lesson one: Finding your purpose and making a planGoing “natural” or being “natural” in my opinion is a life style. A life style that not only allows you to explore your hair but your inner being. One true wonder of life that people find most difficult to understand or grasp is purpose. Whether is be finding a purpose in your finances or finding purpose in life it self, it is sometimes hard to truly understand what our true meaning is.So before you rush to go pick up the tangle teezer at your beauty supply store or even a steamer, stop and ask yourself, “What is my purpose for my hair?” With this question comes many other tag a longs like… what are my hair goals? Is my hair healthy the way it is?Once you begin to question yourself, the questions you come up with should ultimately reveal the answers you need. Meaning that these specific questions you are asking the pertain to your hair would not come up if you didn’t have a concern for it.Once you address your concerns analyze them and make a plan! There is no reason to sit around with hopes that things will magically appear before you. You have to get into action. You got the ingredients so make a recipe!If your plan is to have healthier hair, what steps are you willing to take to achieve this goal? Now I don’t expect everyone to know scientific information on how to grow hair healthy, but simple plans that have “making a regimen” on a list is a step in the right direction.Homework: Fold a piece of paper in half. On one side right questions on what you think the purpose of your hair might be to you and your goals for it. On the other side input steps and a plan that will help you fulfill your purpose. Hang it on your mirror to remind yourself of these steps daily! *Remember that a newly natural could be anyone! Everyday is a new opportunity to start over on your hair journey.
Coco & Creme have a few suggestions to explain the lack of hair growth that many of us experience. Although, we are just impatient and believe out own hair grows a an inch a decade maybe coco and creme have a few answers as to why your tresses aren’t flowing. Have you washed your hair? Washed hair is treated hair…and treated hair means healthy hair…for the most part. How much heat have you used? Yes that’s right… your hair could potentially be heat damaged. All those daily straightenings with that device could have potentially caused heat damage. Heat damage in turn causes breakage and with breakage there is no room for growth. Does your hair feel dry? Moisturizing your hair at least once every day is the very minimum you should undertake when trying to maintain healthy glowing hair!The use of petroleum based products won’t help the cause either… try using products that are alcohol (drying) free and more natural based products (which doesn’t have to be derived from them) Could you possibly have traction alopecia? Constantly pulling your hair back with tight headbands or pony tails can cause stress on your hairline and cause..yes… permanent hair loss. You are what you eat, no? If your goal is to grow healthy hair… why not grow a healthy body? we aren’t getting any younger so watch your diet! Omega-3’s and exercise should help you improve your hair growth acceleration. Have you trimmed in the past year? There are a million debates abut this issue but its simple. Just trim! Im not saying trim every day of the hour but trim as needed. You gain split ends and these split ends move up the hair shaft causing your hair to break off… that doesn’t sound like growth right? Exactly! For more information just check out Clutch Mag!
CIA EDWARDS
Christain Therapist. Trauma Coach, Author. Helping high-achieving women heal past pain, deepen connections and lead with peace
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