The day I popped out of my mom’s womb, she must have been pushing to Destiny’s Child 
Independent woman.
I feel as if that song was spoken into my life. I will and forever will be independent woman.
I have fended for myself, so to speak, ever since I started to receive an allowance. And then even more so after I was granted my first job.
You see, I never liked the feeling of depending on people… Whether it was depending on someone to take me to school or even someone to buy Shelia (My stomach) food, I always wanted to do things my way!
MY WAY OR THE HIGH WAY! I feel as though it may be good to depend on others because that is how trust is implemented, but I can’t suppress the independence in me.
Being sovereign is not a bad thing at all in my eyes. It shows ambition and self proclamation.
I can apply being independent to anything in my life even my hair. I am independent from the thoughts that bound me to societal holds. I need no one to hold my hand when I do my hair, because I know exactly how I want my hair and in which ways I want it styled.
I am independent from the wiles of the world. I need not the world to be happy but Jesus.
I am independent from the grip of men. Yes their coy sexual ways! It can be so easy to fall for a guy and want to be his all. Although I was pulled from him, he doesn’t need to be my supplement but compliment me. You can Do Bad all by yourself!
{I just had to rant or maybe rave about me…so there you have it lol. Yall Feel the same way? Comment Bellow.}